90 Minute first meeting virtually or in the office to assess, identify goals, and develop an action plan
45-90 minute session to assess progress and facilitate change toward desired goals.
45-90 minute session with partner(s) to assess progress and facilitate change toward desired goals.
These can include erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, orgasmic disorders, diminished libido, pelvic floor discomfort, etc.
Fetishes and kink are not necessarily abnormal and many individuals enjoy them as part of their erotic menu of pleasure. They can be problematic wihen partners don't understand or when shame interferes with the clients ability to integrate the object or behavior.
Couples generally bond over a few common themes, they fall in love and assume sex will work itself out. Love and erotic desire can overlap, but they are two distinctly different concepts. Couples sometimes discover that in spite of how much they love each other, they have vastly different sexual appetites and desires.
It is a myth that we naturally lose erotic desire as we age. People have active sexual relationships well into their 80's and beyond. Libido can decline due to health problems, obesity, side effects from medications, and relational discord. An unhappy marriage is not sexy. Years of resentment, distrust, oppression and repression can leave couples feeling trapped and stuck. Coaching can help couples find resolution and discover new ways to reconnect sexually.
The discovery that a partner has cheated is one of the most painful challenges to adult relationships. Navigating the way through this requires all involved to re-examine their expectations and consider all the options ahead of them. Something wasn't working for one or both or the betrayal would not have occurred. It is possible to come out of this with a deeper level of intimacy and a greater sense of sexual integrity individually and as a couple.
Sometimes described as addiction, compulsive sexual behavior can cause one to feel out of control of their erotic thoughts and behavior. Coaching can help the client establish a baseline for what is normal. The client learns to manage erotic thoughts and behaviors in a way that is consistent with his/her unique erotic map.
Monogamy may be a value for most couples, but it does not come naturally. Some individuals/couples discover they are happiest in less traditional relationships. The transition can be challenging for many couples to navigate. Coaching can help the couple insulate their relationship and honor each other for the unique bond they share, while finding new ways to explore experiences with other partners. This is not a one size fits all approach. Each couple must discern the path that is right for them